people u can't leave behind

in her blog my really precious and wise friend dimi had written a post entitled the people u leave behind where she talked abt people we have met in a past moment of our life and that after a point we should get over them

in this post i wanna talk about people we can't leave behind as the title is suggesting
i'm talking about people that have made a great impact on our life
people who have made a difference in the way we see things nowadays
people whom we've met in a specific time of our life where everything was possible and where we'd let things happen to us, where everything was new and open to us
people who are special only because we loved them truly either referring to love or even friendship or maybe both and then we rejected them and after that we realized that they deeply loved us and it was a mistake getting away from them after all but by then it was already too late
people they loved us for who we really are,for all our weaknesses and particularities
people they thought we were perfect at the moment and this feeling can never be lost whatsoever

however there's also the case of people we cant leave behind not because of all the things we've shared with them and their influence on us
sometimes the present and the unresolved past don't let us get over some situations where certain people are involved in
sometimes the present can be so boring and meaningless and unbearable to us that we tend to idealize the past, we tend to remember only the bright parts and forget all the negative things that encouraged us to be cruel or even to break up relationships
many times i stronly believe we just think of the past in a different way than what really happened so we regret about the way things have turned out
we want to go back to the past as all the remains from those days are still inside us deeply and don't let us move forward

remember we can never turn back time unfortunately to erase things with the knowledge of the present circustances
however things would be different in the present if we could change the past so easily ...
i mean u can never be sure abt how things will turn out and how they could be different if...
time is everything thats my belief so just do things the way u feel like at the moment and dont think abt them too much
a decision or a choice once made has its own consequences and u've to bear all responsibility for it...every choice we make at a time has its own sacrifice, load for each one of us and this is true though cruel and irreversible it may sound

SO then sometimes we SHOULD leave people behind us as dimi tells us to
whats done is done and we shouldn't regret about things we did in the past since there's no point to it
the past can be a misleading guide for the present
GET OVER IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE

most importantly never forget to say to people u care abt how much u love them-
everyone wants to hear that even the most cynical ones -dimi!!!!!!!!
this is a useful piece of advice from the preacher of love

KIND REQUEST
i wish to hear my viewers' comments on the way they think past can hold us back